13th November, Friday - My elder brother passed away at 61. He went quickly from hypertensive heart disease (?), probably heart attack. The suddenness shocked all of us, especially his wife who was devastated.
It was sad that his son whom he has not seen in 2 years took his time to return for the funeral. I hope my sons will behave better when my time comes.
On the other side, it was a relatively quick and painless moving on. Also I am glad mum is not aware of it all. He was her favorite. The siblings came together to give him an appropriate send off and it was a bonding experience though we were not close to him.
Finally and most important of all, we did honored mother with appropriate responses.
